尊重并不是花言巧語，也不是表面上的客氣

其實，決定一段感情值不值得繼續，根本不用靠感動自己那點執念。什么“再多付出他就會懂”，只是自欺欺人。一個男人，如果連下面這幾樣東西都舍不得給你，感情該斷就得斷，真的沒必要可惜。

首先，是時間和耐心。

你有沒有發現，一個真正愛你的人，無論多忙，都會給你留時間。哪怕只是下班后的一句“你吃了嗎”，或者凌晨兩點還愿意陪你聊幾句廢話。那些口口聲聲說太忙了，“工作重要”掛嘴邊的，無非就是你在他的優先級排得太低。這種男人，等再久，他也不會騰出真正屬于你的空間。別傻等了，你不是他的備胎，也不是他消遣壓力的工具。他要是不愿意分一點耐心給你，你給再多也換不回真心。

其次，是尊重和信任。

成年人誰都不容易，每個人都有過去，也有自己的底線。尊重并不是花言巧語，也不是表面上的客氣，而是一種不需要考驗的小細節。比如，不在朋友面前冷落你，不用你的隱私開玩笑，更不會讓你為了證明自己而一遍遍解釋。更慘的是，那種總是防著你發脾氣、查你手機、動不動就否定你的人，他其實壓根兒瞧不上你。一個男人若是真心想跟你長久，他一定會肯定你，讓你有安全感。不給你尊重和信任，就別指望他能給你未來。

再次，是主動和擔當。

坦白講，日子雖然柴米油鹽，可很多小事都藏著人品。一個男人再沒錢，但肯為你做飯、記得你的生日、幫你拎袋子、半夜雨天送你回家，這些主動和擔當，遠比送大牌包包更有分量。你不覺得嗎？女人其實不是缺錢花，而是缺個敢為自己扛起小事，大事也能一起想辦法的肩膀。如果你要什么都自己安排，他只會說一句“隨你”，或者直接裝傻，那你們根本就是搭伙過日子。一個真正想和你走下去的男人，哪怕能力有限，也會用心彌補，不會總讓你獨自扛壓力。要是連這點擔當都沒有，就別委屈自己湊合了。http://wap.xnb360.com/wnews/47568.shtml
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最后，也是最重要的——情緒價值。

這個詞最近特別火，可實際上很少有人真正能做到。一個人在外面累成狗，只有回到家才能卸下盔甲。而你喜歡的人，愿不愿意安慰你、包容你、帶給你溫暖和正能量，真的比什么都重要。那種永遠讓你擔驚受怕、說話陰陽怪氣、不懂哄你開心的，哪怕他再優秀，你也撐不久。情緒價值，就像愛情里的氧氣，比物質重要得多。他都不肯照顧你的情緒，還指望感情長久？別傻了，別耽誤自己。